July 2003: After much convincing of the family, we load into the car for a long drive - St. Louis to Yellowstone National Park (http://www.nps.gov/yell/) and back with countless stops in between. We had three small children who were untested in their ability to sustain any lengthy trip in the car - but we were going to find out if it were possible.
It was not that long since 9/11, the economy was struggling, and my industry in particular was in meltdown mode. We needed some time away to focus on us.
First, we set expectations: Day 1 was nothing but driving; from the time they got up in the morning til the time they went to bed 16 hours later. Little to see - just road and more road. We had a TV & VCR installed in the Yukon for the trip; the best investment we ever made. There was the occassional roadside attraction like the "fake" golden spike in Iowa where there was allegedly a joining of the east & west built railroads - the "real" golden spike was driven in Promontory Summit, UT and is a National Monument. The golden spike we saw (Council Bluff, IA) was a distraction for the kids and a loss of about 45 minutes of important driving time for us.
We mapped the route, made reservations, created a book of activities for the kids to stay busy - information on where we would go, what we would see, and games for them to play (bingo, tic tac toe, hangman, etc). Each of the kids was given a disposable camera so they could participate in the sights. They felt very involved and we were off. The planning paid off in spades.
